Catholic For A Reason

In Matthew 18, Jesus is speaking to his disciples, and the passage concerns the authority and responsibility of the Church in dealing with sin, reconciliation, and life within the Christian community. Earlier, in Matthew 16:19, Jesus gives this authority specifically to Peter when he says: “I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven. Whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven…”

Then, in Matthew 18:18, that language is extended to the apostolic community. The important point is that the binding and loosing is done on earth by those to whom Christ entrusts the authority, but the authority itself comes from Christ.

Therefore, the Church does not create God’s truth; she receives, guards, interprets, and applies what Christ has entrusted to her.

To “bind” could mean to prohibit, to declare something forbidden, or to impose an obligation. To “loose” could mean to permit, release from an obligation, or declare something lawful. So Jesus is giving his apostles real authority to make judgments concerning the life of God’s people.

This becomes especially visible in the Sacrament of Reconciliation, where Christ’s authority to forgive sins is exercised through the ordained ministry of the Church.

Christ has entrusted his Church with genuine authority to govern, teach, reconcile, and discipline his people, and Christ stands behind the legitimate exercise of that authority. The Church acts in the name of Christ, not in place of Christ.

Jesus’ words about binding and loosing reveal that the Christian faith is not simply a private relationship between an individual and God. Christ entrusted his apostles and, through them, their successors with real authority to teach, govern, reconcile, and discipline his people.

Jesus is not telling us to become childish. He is inviting us to become childlike. What does it mean to be “childlike”?

A child knows that life is received before it is controlled. A child depends upon others, trusts those who love them, asks questions, receives gifts with wonder, and is willing to admit, “I don’t know.”

Perhaps this is what Jesus means when He tells us to “turn.” The turning is not simply changing our behavior. It is turning away from our insistence that we must manage, understand, control, and accomplish everything ourselves.

Ron Rolheiser offers a beautiful insight into what this childlikeness can mean for an adult. He reminds us that we cannot and should not return to the naïveté of childhood. Life has changed us. We have experienced disappointment, loss, suffering, relationships, responsibility, and the complexities of being human.

The goal, then, is not to become naïve again. It is to become innocent again after having lost our innocence.

Rolheiser describes this as a kind of “second naiveté” a childlike wonder that has passed through the experience of adult life. We know that life can wound us, yet we choose not to become cynical. We know that people can disappoint us, yet we choose to love. We know that we cannot control the future, yet we choose to trust God. We have learned how complicated life can be, yet we allow ourselves to be amazed by its goodness once again.

And perhaps this is why Jesus places a child in the middle of the disciples’ argument about who is greatest. The Kingdom is not entered by becoming more important, more powerful, or more self-sufficient. It is entered by becoming humble enough to receive.

Rolheiser tells the story of an elderly man who spent much of his life fiercely independent and self-sufficient. Only through the losses of his later years – his wife, his health, his independence, and his place in the world – did something begin to change within him. He became mellow enough to recognize that he needed to grasp a stronger hand. His point is profound: we can deliberately surrender our self-sufficiency to God, or life may eventually teach us the lesson.

At first, it sounds as though Jesus is telling us to hate the life God has given us. But that isn’t what he means. Jesus is not asking us to reject our life, our relationships, our work, our hopes, or the person God created us to be. He is asking us to examine something much deeper: the life we have built around ourselves.

There is a way of living in which everything revolves around protecting and preserving my life as I have defined it. I want to remain in control. I want things to go according to my plans. I want to be successful, respected, comfortable, secure, and appreciated. I want to hold onto what I have accomplished and protect the identity I have created for myself.

And yet, we can become so invested in protecting the life we have built that we become trapped inside it. Sometimes the life we are trying hardest to protect becomes the very thing that keeps us from truly living.

Jesus uses the image of a grain of wheat to explain this mystery. A grain can remain safely in our hand, protected and untouched. But as long as it remains there, it can never become what it was created to be. It must fall into the ground. It must surrender its present form. Only then can new life emerge.

The same thing can happen in us. God may not be asking us to give up everything we value. He may be asking us to release our grip on those things, so they no longer determine who we are. What might that mean?

– We may need to lose our need to control everything.
– We may need to lose our need to be right, admired, successful, or needed.
– We may need to let go of old resentments and wounds that have become part
of our identity.
– We may need to surrender the belief that our accomplishments, possessions,
or other people’s approval determine our worth.

These things aren’t necessarily bad in themselves. The problem begins when something good becomes something we believe we cannot live without.

Jesus is inviting us to a different way of living. Instead of constantly asking, “How can I protect the life I have built?” we begin asking, “What is God inviting me to surrender so that I can receive the life He wants to give me?”

That is the paradox of the Gospel: surrender can become freedom. Letting go can become receiving. Dying to the false self can become discovering our true self in God. Jesus isn’t asking us to lose ourselves. He is asking us to let go of whatever prevents us from becoming who we were created to be.

And perhaps that is what makes this teaching so challenging. The question isn’t simply, “What am I willing to give up for God?” The deeper question is: “What am I holding onto so tightly that I no longer have room to receive what God wants to give me?”

Perhaps today the invitation is simply to open our hands. Not because everything we have is bad. Not because our life is something to despise.

But because our life was never meant to be possessed. It was meant to be received as a gift. And sometimes, the first step toward eternal life is discovering what we need to let go of in order to truly live. We must give up our life for His life.

There is something almost mysterious about this simple scene from Matthew’s Gospel. Jesus has spent the day surrounded by people. He has taught them, ministered to them, and responded to their needs. Yet when the day is finished, Jesus does something very intentional:

He withdraws. He goes up the mountain by Himself to pray. He goes to be alone with the Father.

Those words invite us to pause because we live in a world that has become increasingly uncomfortable with being alone. We fill our days with activity, conversation, entertainment, technology, social media, and constant connection. Even when we are physically alone, we can remain surrounded by noise.

And yet Jesus shows us something profoundly different. There is a difference between being alone and being lonely.

Loneliness is the painful experience of feeling disconnected, forgotten, or abandoned. Solitude, however, can be something entirely different. Solitude is the intentional decision to step away from the noise so that we can become present to God.

The mountain itself is not what makes the encounter possible. What matters is that Jesus intentionally removes Himself from the demands and distractions around Him. He creates space for God.

Perhaps we need our own mountain. It may not be an actual mountain. It may be a quiet room before the rest of the household awakens. It may be a walk, a drive, a quiet church, time before the Blessed Sacrament, or simply sitting quietly at the end of the day.

Sometimes we are afraid of silence because silence allows us to hear what is happening inside us. When everything becomes quiet, our worries, disappointments, fears, regrets, and unanswered questions can become more noticeable.

Yet one of the great lessons of Jesus’ solitude is that prayer is not always about saying more. Sometimes prayer is simply being present.

“Lord, I am here. You are here. I am with You.” And then we can be silent.

We do not have to impress God with our words. We do not have to explain ourselves. We do not have to prove our worthiness. We simply allow ourselves to be present to the One who already knows us completely and loves us completely.

The absence of people does not mean the absence of God. Sometimes the quietest seasons of our lives can become the places where we discover God most deeply.

What feels like emptiness can become an invitation. What feels like loneliness can become solitude. What feels like silence can become prayer. And what feels like being alone can become an awareness of the One who has never left us.

He is there. In the silence. In the uncertainty. In the waiting. In the evening. On the mountain. And in the ordinary moments when we finally become quiet enough to recognize Him.

Turn off the noise. Put down the phone. Step away from the demands. Find a quiet place. Sit with Christ. And for a few moments, don’t ask Him for anything.

Simply remain there.

Then allow the silence to become prayer. Because the truth Jesus reveals on that mountain is one we need to remember throughout our lives. We are never alone when we are with the Lord: In Him, with Him, and Through Him.

Today we celebrate the memorial of St. Dominic, founder of the Order of Preachers. His life offers an important lesson for every Christian: our faith is not something we practice apart from the rest of our lives. Faith is meant to transform the way we live, work, serve, and love.

Dominic lived during a time when the Church faced significant challenges to the truth of the Gospel. His response was not simply to work harder, but to become more deeply rooted in God. His preaching flowed from prayer, contemplation, study, and a deep love for Christ.

There is something here for all of us.

We can easily separate our lives into categories: my faith, my family, my work, my responsibilities. But for the Christian, these are not separate worlds. Our relationship with Christ should gradually enter every part of our lives.

Our work can make us impatient or patient, proud or humble, self-centered or generous. It can become an obsession with achievement and recognition or it can become an opportunity to serve others and offer something of ourselves to God.

St. Dominic reminds us that work becomes a part of our spiritual life when we allow God to shape the way we do it.

Dominic’s life can therefore challenge us to see our daily responsibilities differently. We don’t have to leave ordinary life behind to become holy. We can allow God to enter our ordinary lives and transform the way we work, speak, serve, and love.

Where is Christ asking me to bring more patience, humility, truth, courage, forgiveness, or love into the work of my day?

Perhaps our greatest work is not simply what we accomplish.

Perhaps it is the person God is forming us to become while we are accomplishing it.

St. Dominic, pray for us, that our prayer may shape our work, our work may become service, and our service may lead others closer to Christ.

This passage speaks with particular clarity to what many spiritual writers describe as the transition into the second half of life. During the first half, we naturally build careers, families, reputations, and identities. These are necessary tasks. Yet there comes a moment when God gently asks whether the structures we have built are serving His Kingdom or merely preserving our own importance. The question shifts from “What have I accomplished?” to “Who am I becoming?”

Ultimately, Jesus points toward Himself. No one appeared to lose more than Christ. He surrendered comfort, popularity, security, and finally His own life upon the Cross. Yet in that complete self-giving, He revealed the deepest truth of the Gospel: love that gives itself is never truly lost. Through His Resurrection, Jesus demonstrates that what is surrendered to God is transformed into eternal life.

The greatest tragedy, then, is not dying with little. The greatest tragedy is arriving before God with a successful earthly résumé but an underdeveloped soul. Every possession, title, accomplishment, and earthly reward will one day pass away. Only faith, hope, love, and our communion with God endure forever.

Jesus leaves us with a question because each disciple must answer it personally. Every day we choose what kind of treasure we are pursuing. Every day we decide whether the world will define our worth or whether Christ will.

Jesus enters Gentile territory where a desperate Canaanite mother begs Him to heal her daughter. She calls Him “Son of David,” recognizing Israel’s Messiah, yet Jesus first remains silent and then says that He has come for “the lost sheep of the house of Israel.” Finally, He declares that it is not right to take the children’s bread and give it to the dogs.

At first, His words sound harsh. But Jesus is revealing the order of God’s saving plan, not denying God’s love. Israel received the covenant first because God is faithful to His promises. Through Israel, salvation would then be offered to the whole world. Using the image of children at a family table and household pets waiting nearby, Jesus illustrates that God’s blessings come first to Israel, but are never meant to stop there.

The woman understands. She does not argue or demand. Instead, she replies, “Even the dogs eat the scraps that fall from their masters’ table.” Her answer reveals extraordinary humility and complete confidence that even the smallest expression of Christ’s mercy is enough to heal. She believes that God’s grace is abundant beyond measure.

Jesus’ conversation is also directed to His disciples. They are about to become apostles to all nations, yet they still think in terms of insiders and outsiders. By praising this Gentile woman, “Great is your faith!”, Jesus teaches them that faith, not ancestry, opens the door to God’s Kingdom. The covenant remains faithful to Israel, but its fulfillment reaches every nation.

Only twice in Matthew’s Gospel does Jesus explicitly praise someone for having “great faith.” Both are Gentiles. The Roman centurion and the Canaanite woman. Meanwhile, the disciples are repeatedly described as having “little faith.” Matthew clearly wants his readers to notice this contrast. Faith is not inherited. Faith is received.

The apparent harshness of Jesus’ words in this story is not meant to exclude, but to reveal. It uncovers the faith of a humble woman, teaches the disciples that God’s mercy extends beyond every human boundary, and proclaims that all who come to Christ with persevering faith will find a place at His table.

Saint John Vianney is remembered not because he wrote great theological works or held positions of influence within the Church. He is remembered because he allowed Christ to love His people through him. In an age when many had grown indifferent to God, the Curé of Ars quietly became a living icon of the Good Shepherd.

People came seeking forgiveness, but they encountered something even greater. They encountered the mercy of Christ. Vianney possessed an extraordinary ability to see into the human heart, not to condemn but to heal. Penitents often remarked that before they could confess their sins, he already seemed to know them—not as an accusation, but as a physician who already understood the illness before prescribing the cure.

Saint John Vianney reminds us that God measures greatness differently than the world. He was not known for brilliance or influence but for allowing Christ’s mercy to flow through his priesthood. In the quiet village of Ars, he transformed countless lives simply by celebrating the Eucharist, praying faithfully, and spending long hours reconciling sinners with God.

His life reveals the heart of the Good Shepherd. Jesus continues to seek the lost, heal the wounded, and welcome sinners home through the ministry of His Church. The confessional, so central to Vianney’s life, is not a place of shame but of healing, where the mercy won on Calvary becomes personal for each believer.

His witness also reminds every Christian that holiness is usually found in ordinary faithfulness. Whether we are priests, parents, teachers, friends, or neighbors, our vocation is the same: to make it easier for others to encounter Christ through our words, our compassion, and our lives.

To us, a tassel seems like a tiny, almost insignificant detail. However, for a first-century Jew, it was anything but insignificant. God commanded the tassels (tzitzit) in the Law, as we read in Numbers.

Every faithful Jewish man wore them as reminders of God’s covenant and commandments. Every time the tassels brushed against the hand, they silently proclaimed: “Remember the Lord. Walk in His ways.”

Jesus wore them because He fulfilled the Law perfectly. The people were not touching a magical object. They were reaching toward the One who perfectly embodied God’s covenant. The tassel became the meeting point between divine grace and human faith.

What amazes us is how little the Lord seems to require. The people did not possess perfect theology. They had not completed years of discipleship. They had not mastered prayer. Many probably could not explain who Jesus truly was.

Yet they believed one thing: “If I can only touch Him…”

Notice Matthew’s wording. They did not demand healing. They begged. Faith is never entitlement. Faith is humble dependence. It reaches with empty hands.

Jesus could have insisted upon more. He could have required interviews. He could have tested every motive. Instead, Matthew simply says, “As many as touched it were healed.”

The Lord does not ration His mercy. His holiness is never diminished by contact with broken humanity. Holiness flows outward. Throughout Scripture, impurity usually spreads from the sick to the healthy. With Jesus, everything is reversed.

His purity overcomes impurity. His life overcomes death. His mercy overcomes sin. His presence overcomes suffering.

God does not demand a faith that is already complete; He welcomes a faith that reaches toward Him, however small it may seem. Jesus Himself compared faith to a mustard seed—not because it is impressive, but because even the smallest genuine trust opens the heart to God’s action.

The Apostle Paul sits in chains. The walls around him are cold, dark, and unyielding. He has been beaten, imprisoned, rejected, and constantly threatened with death. From a worldly perspective, it would seem that everything has been taken from him.

Imagine standing on the edge of life, looking back over every joy, every failure, every unanswered prayer, and every fear about what still lies ahead. Behind you is your past. Before you is an unknown future. Above you stretches the heavens. Beneath your feet lies the earth. Around you are forces you cannot see and circumstances you cannot control.

Then Christ quietly says, “None of it can separate you from My love.”

• Not death.
• Not life.
• Not suffering.
• Not success.
• Not today’s burdens.
• Not tomorrow’s uncertainties.
• Not any power in heaven or on earth.

His love has already crossed every barrier when He carried the Cross to Calvary and rose victorious from the tomb. The Christian life is not lived trying to earn God’s love. It is lived learning to trust the love that has already been freely given in Christ.

So how does this reading from Romans tie into today’s Gospel reading from Matthew? Well, Romans 8 teaches the permanence of God’s love. Matthew 14 reveals the character of God’s love.

In the story of the Feeding of the Five Thousand, a hungry crowd gathers around Jesus with nothing to offer but their need. The disciples see too few loaves and too many people. Jesus sees something else, a people He loves.

He takes the little they have, blesses it, breaks it, and gives it away until everyone is satisfied. In that moment, Jesus reveals what Paul will later proclaim in Romans: God’s love is never exhausted and never withheld. It always moves toward us, providing what we truly need.

Every time we come to Mass, we stand with that crowd. We arrive carrying our worries, our failures, our hopes, and our hunger for God. Christ still takes, blesses, breaks, and gives. In the Eucharist, He feeds us with Himself, assuring us that nothing—not death, not life, not fear, nor any power—can separate us from His love.

The same Christ who refused to send the hungry crowd away in Matthew’s story of the Feeding of the Five Thousand is the Christ whom Paul proclaims can never be separated from His people.

The Feeding of the Five Thousand is, therefore, more than a miracle of bread. It is a living parable of the covenant faithfulness of God. The One who provides bread in the wilderness is the same Lord who feeds His Church in the Eucharist and promises that no force in all creation can separate His people from His love.