Our reflection verse today from Matthew 18:15 is part of what is often called “The Discourse on the Church” because Jesus is teaching his disciples how a community formed in his name should respond when relationships are wounded by sin.
The passage’s governing purpose is found in Jesus’ phrase, “If he listens to you, you have won over your brother.” Correction is therefore not primarily about winning an argument, proving oneself right, exposing another’s sin, or protecting one’s superiority. Its purpose is to recover a brother or sister and restore communion. In this sense, the passage teaches that Christian correction serves reconciliation, not victory.
Yet the concern of correction must first turn to where our heart and mind are coming from in relation to the perceived “sin” that has occurred. Henri Nouwen would remind us that correction is an act of spiritual hospitality: creating a safe but truthful space in which another person can face what has happened without being reduced to the offense. His teaching on forgiveness stresses precisely this movement from accusation toward shared human vulnerability and restored relationship.
Ronald Roheiser notes that Christians can become very skilled at identifying what is wrong while remaining unable to produce healing or conversion. Knowing another person’s fault does not necessarily give us the spiritual authority to correct it. That authority comes from personal integrity, humility, compassion, and the willingness to carry some of the other person’s weakness.
Jesus used his energies toward unity, patience, forgiveness, and reconciliation. Richard Rohr would caution that we must understand that we often react most strongly to faults in others that we have not recognized or reconciled within ourselves. Jesus tells us that “where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I in the midst of them.” This means that Christ must be the true center of the encounter. If the correcting group becomes a coalition against the accused, it is no longer gathering authentically in Christ’s name.
Jesus recognized real boundaries and never pretended that sin was harmless. Yet he also ate with tax collectors, called Matthew to discipleship, praised the faith of Gentiles, and continued inviting outsiders into relationship. Therefore, exclusion from the community may sometimes become necessary—particularly when someone remains abusive, destructive, or unrepentant—but it must never become permission to hate, humiliate, or abandon concern for that person’s salvation.
Christian correction is not the righteous correcting the unrighteous from above. It is one wounded and forgiven disciple approaching another in humility, truth, and hope for restored communion. Its thesis is simple: correction serves recovery, not superiority.
It is Christ’s protection against two opposite failures: ignoring destructive behavior on the one hand and condemning people without mercy on the other. Its deepest purpose is expressed in Jesus’ own words: to win back one’s brother or sister.