
Jesus is not telling us to become childish. He is inviting us to become childlike. What does it mean to be “childlike”?
A child knows that life is received before it is controlled. A child depends upon others, trusts those who love them, asks questions, receives gifts with wonder, and is willing to admit, “I don’t know.”
Perhaps this is what Jesus means when He tells us to “turn.” The turning is not simply changing our behavior. It is turning away from our insistence that we must manage, understand, control, and accomplish everything ourselves.
Ron Rolheiser offers a beautiful insight into what this childlikeness can mean for an adult. He reminds us that we cannot and should not return to the naïveté of childhood. Life has changed us. We have experienced disappointment, loss, suffering, relationships, responsibility, and the complexities of being human.
The goal, then, is not to become naïve again. It is to become innocent again after having lost our innocence.
Rolheiser describes this as a kind of “second naiveté” a childlike wonder that has passed through the experience of adult life. We know that life can wound us, yet we choose not to become cynical. We know that people can disappoint us, yet we choose to love. We know that we cannot control the future, yet we choose to trust God. We have learned how complicated life can be, yet we allow ourselves to be amazed by its goodness once again.
And perhaps this is why Jesus places a child in the middle of the disciples’ argument about who is greatest. The Kingdom is not entered by becoming more important, more powerful, or more self-sufficient. It is entered by becoming humble enough to receive.
Rolheiser tells the story of an elderly man who spent much of his life fiercely independent and self-sufficient. Only through the losses of his later years – his wife, his health, his independence, and his place in the world – did something begin to change within him. He became mellow enough to recognize that he needed to grasp a stronger hand. His point is profound: we can deliberately surrender our self-sufficiency to God, or life may eventually teach us the lesson.








